Marriage is a serious phase in one's life. It is a choice that is made by two people who are in love. The reason why you have to think carefully and thoroughly when you are planning to get married is because you are entering a certain stage that is meant to stay that way for a long time. The figures show it all. The divorce rate in increasing in number. People no longer look at marriage as a serous commitment made by two people. For other people it is just like a game that they play. People have to understand that whatever trials and challenges come in a couple's life they have to face it together because that is what is marriage is all about. Moreover, if it is falling apart there are certainly ways on how to save your marriage. There is no perfect ingredient in order to make marriage successful. Every experience is unique and every couple also has different ways to make it work. You cannot compare the married life of one to another. You also cannot teach couples on what to do and insist that this is the right thing. It just does not work that way. People do not have an idea on what is really happening in your married life and the only ones who know the real story are the two people involved. When faced with difficulties and when it comes to a point where you think there is no way that it is going to last, do not ever think that way. That is the first thing that you must do. Be positive that there is still hope. Perhaps you need time to be away from each other for some time they say that absence makes the heart go fonder so maybe that is just what you need. In that way you two can think about things and decide on what to do next. Sometimes being with each other for a long time can really be exhausting. It is time to give your relationship some thrill. In addition, you really do not have to stop living when you're married. That is one reason why a lot of married individuals get depressed. They think that they do not anymore have the right to enjoy and they just carry all the problems and responsibilities on their shoulders. There is no problem that cannot be solved by being open with each other. Married couples should no stop talking with each other. A healthy conversation actually makes the relationship stronger so encourage your partner to open whatever he thinks and feels and the same way goes with you. In that way, at the moment you can spot that there is something wrong you can easily fix things and it would not have to grow and becomes a big issue. If you can agree on matters then for sure you can still save your marriage.