Executive Matchmaker Reveals 7 Relationship Success Principles
What is the key to having a successful and lasting relationship
? Many accomplished men and women have tremendous professional success, yet continue to experience frustrations and disappointments in their personal lives.There is much confusion about how to find lasting love in todays fast-paced society and how to navigate the labyrinth of dating, love and relationships to finally meet and keep the one.
Great relationships dont just happen. They are created.
Uli Eitel, President and CEO of Sterling Introductions, the premier upscale matchmaking service with headquarters in Atlanta, serves as a trusted adviser to many of the nations wealthy and upscale singles.
Uli is an expert in the complexities of modern relationships and through her professional matchmaking service, relationship coaching, and lectures and seminars, has assisted thousands in achieving their relationship goals.
There are seven timeless principles for relationship success that I have discovered as an executive matchmaker to the nations elite, said Eitel.
1.Think positive and love yourself
Individuals who are optimistic and approach life with a "the glass is half full" mindset create positive experiences in their lives. They know that when one door closes, another one opens and they look at the upside rather than the downside in every life situation. Another important factor is to love yourself first. How can you expect someone to fall in love with you, if you dont love yourself? You are a unique and beautiful human being. Love yourself unconditionally and you will attract love.
2.Accept and appreciate the differences between men and women
The goal is not to overcome our differences, but to cherish them. Successful relationships are an exchange of opposite energies. Men enjoy the feminine aspects of a woman. Her looks, hair, skin, smell and sensuality. A man enjoys making a woman feel special and women need to allow the men in their lives to treat them like ladies. A good man will want to take care of his partner and loves to do things for her. A woman who knows how to graciously receive will earn a mans heart.
3.Spend quality time together
Carve out time for the two of you on a daily basis. Quality time can be a short walk after work together or a long romantic weekend without the kids. Even busy couples can find a half hour a day to reconnect. Turn off the TV and listen to some beautiful music with your loved one. Or plan a meal together. A good relationship will thrive, if you make your time together a priority.
4.Dont harbor resentments
If you have disagreements, do your best to resolve the issue and let it go. Concentrate on the here and now and dont bring up an argument from five months ago. Resentments are like a cancerous growth that will take over and poison whats good and healthy. Ask yourself if what youre arguing about will matter a year from now. Most of the time, you may find that it wont.
5.Keep the passion alive
Many couples in long-term relationships may find themselves becoming a bit too complacent when it comes to romance. To keep the flames of passion alive, dont forget to show your partner how special he or she is to you. Remember the fun and excitement of the early days in your relationship? You can recreate that spark! Schedule a special date night just for the two of you. Play hooky on a weekday afternoon and celebrate your love. Dont save that beautiful lingerie for a special occasion, but wear it on an ordinary weekday evening to surprise him.
6.Learn to Forgive
Lets face it. Nobody is perfect. And nobody is exempt from conflict. How we handle conflict is what makes the difference between happy couples and couples headed for divorce court. Conflict resolution is both an attitude and a skill that can be learned. You and your partner may disagree occasionally and thats fine. It is important to remember that winning it not the goal when it comes to conflict resolution. Learn to forgive and keep your relationship free of resentment.
7.Be realistic
At Sterling Introductions, our members are selective and have the right to expect the best, yet expectations with respect to a life partner need to be realistic. In other words, if someone describes a potential partner who sounds like a complete fantasy, rather than an actual person, we will not be able to work with him or her. If you are in a lasting relationship and things are not always perfect, relax. Learn to compromise and negotiate. Understand that life is a journey and as couples, we must grow and change together.
For more information on Sterling Introductions and to schedule a complimentary personal consultation, please call 404-419-2280 or visit the website at www.sterlingintroductions.com.
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