5 Steps To Attracting Your Ideal Mate Personal Matchmaker Shares Her Secrets
The saying "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear
," holds true for romantic relationships as well. You will have to be ready, think the right thoughts and project positive energy to attract that right person into your life.It's important to understand what you really want in a relationship at any given point in your life, because that's what you are going to attract. The journey toward finding your ideal mate starts with knowing, respecting, and loving yourself first.
Sometimes people can appear to be doing all the right things on the outside - yet subconsciously, by the thoughts and beliefs they have, they might be sabotaging their efforts and actually be pushing potential partners away.
Uli Eitel, President & CEO of Sterling Introductions, and personal matchmaker with an upscale nationwide clientele, reveals the 5 crucial steps to meeting your ideal mate.
Step 1: Be True to Your Desire of Wanting to Meet Your Match
While this may sound obvious, it is the most important step in achieving relationship success. All too often, singles sent "mixed messages," by emphasizing how much they enjoy their independence and how well they get on by themselves.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to share your life with the right person! To acknowledge that desire within you is honest and does not make you "desperate" in any way. Appreciate your desire and acknowledge it in a positive way. Visualize yourself with your ideal mate before you go to sleep at night and before you rise in the morning. Positive visualization is a powerful tool and I encourage you to practice it daily.
Step 2: Believe that You Will Meet Your Match
You must believe that it will happen. If deep down, you have doubts and fears, you may sabotage yourself. There is a big difference between wishful thinking and a strong belief. You cannot be positive and fearful at the same time. Your mind will attract anything it dwells upon. This may sound overly simplistic, but you will be amazed by the changes in your life, if you truly and wholeheartedly believe that you will meet the right partner for you.
Step 3: Be Confident
The best way to get confident is to remember a time when you felt full of confidence and "on top of the world." Certainly, you will be able to recall such a situation. Ask yourself, "what did I do then?" and picture yourself handling the situation with poise and ease. If you doubt your ability to have a successful relationship, picture a time in your life when you did. Quick confidence boosters are exercise or a phone call to a positive friend.
Step 4: Be Grateful
Appreciation and gratitude are the most important spiritual emotions. We are all made up of energy and our energy vibrates on different levels. If we are angry or frustrated, our vibrations are entirely different from when we experience a sense of gratefulness and appreciation.
Practice being grateful. One way could be to keep a "gratitude journal" and jot down the things you are grateful for every day. It can be small things like your favorite coffee drink in the morning or enjoying a walk in the park. Optimistic and positive people attract one another. Be grateful for your life!
Step 5: Live with Passion
Success and passion go hand in hand. I have yet to meet an accomplished individual who is not passionate and excited about their life, said Eitel. To qualify for membership with Sterling Introductions exclusive matchmaking service, you must be passionate, explained this personal matchmaker and relationship expert, who has assisted thousands of happy couples.
Passion acts like a magnet. It is contagious and adds the spice to daily living. Along with emotional maturity, passion is the cornerstone for any successful relationship.
If you have yet to find your passion in life, think about the time when you were a child. What excited you then? What did you want to do or be when you thought about your future? Did you love to swim, bicycle, or rollerblade? Do it now! What's keeping you from fulfilling your dreams?
Life your life to the fullest, be grateful and positive, believe in yourself and you are well on your way to attract the love you deserve into your life!
For more information on Sterling Introductions and to schedule a complimentary personal consultation, please call 404-419-2280 or visit the website at www.sterlingintroductions.com.
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