subject: 5 Tips To Have Better Conversations With Your Girlfriend [print this page] It's always good to hear that a guy wants to know how to have better conversations with the woman he is involved with, as there are so many women who whine about how their guy doesn't seem to want to talk to them or that he does not communicate enough for them. If you are looking to get better at talking to the woman you are dating, I'd say that you can go ahead and pat yourself on the back because you are doing something that most men should be doing, but aren't. That being said, you are probably curious about what you can do to have better conversations with your woman.
Here are 5 tips that will definitely prove to be helpful if you want to make good conversation with your girlfriend:
1) Good conversation starts when you are genuinely interested in what she has to say.
You can't just act like you have an interest in what your girlfriend has to say to you, she will be able to see through this pretty easily. What you do want to do is to actually develop an active interest to hear what is on her mind, because that will show her that you are being real and you know that your girlfriend would rather you be real than for you to be faking it.
2) Learn about some of the things that she is interested in.
There are things that you like that she probably knows little about and then there are things that she likes that your probably know very little about. Learn about those things so that you have some common ground and you can talk about the things that she likes to talk about. For example, let's say that your girlfriend is really into environmental issues and you don't know much about them. Take the time to learn a few things and then surprise her when you sit down to talk with her about them. She'll like that you are at least trying.
3) Make eye contact with her when the two of you are talking.
When you make eye contact with someone when they are talking to you, it compels them to do the same. It also gives off the impression that you really do value what they have to say and you also value the act of just sitting down to talk to them. This is the kind of thing that is going to make her feel like she has a boyfriend who really does appreciate her for who she is.
4) Lose the serious face.
When you want to have a good conversation with your woman, you don't want to look too serious. This is not a time where you are going to be debating with an adversary, so loosen up and smile while the two of you are talking to one another.
5) Ask her questions when you don't know what to say next.
If you come to that moment where you feel like you have run out of steam and you really don't have a lot to say, you can almost always rely on a good question to keep the thing moving along. Ask her something quirky, something that she would not expect you to ask and then wait for her to respond.
by: A.J. Smith
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