subject: How To Survive After a Recent Breakup - Adjusting To Life For The First Few Months [print this page] How To Survive After a Recent Breakup - Adjusting To Life For The First Few Months
Life certainly has it's ups and downs at times, but your not alone because someone always has some sort of dramatic event going on. It's just human nature, if you have nothing going on then life would be pretty boring. So now that question becomes, " How do I survive now "? You've gotten so used to things being a certain way that now your not sure which way to turn.
First of all try not to dwell on or over think things for too long. I know it's a natural reaction, however the last thing you want do is make yourself feel worse. Even though you may already feel like things are already at there lowest point, try to get your mind focused on something else.
Secondly, If you've sort of distanced yourself from family because of how your feeling maybe it might help to talk to one of them or one that you may be close too. I know not everyone is close to there family, however if the option is there for you then having them for support may be what you need right now.
Try to stay away from any kind of revenge tactics. It sounds tempting especially if you have the opportunity. Do the right thing and be the bigger person, it's not a good thing to do if your objective is to try to get back together. It's OK to let the thoughts of revenge go through your mind but that's as far as I would take it.
Most definitely try do something for yourself. Call up an old friend and go to a movie, go shopping, go to a game, or even take a class in something that you may have already been thinking about doing for a while. Especially if it's a class in something that you are trying to better yourself, whether that be a computer class, art class, or just something that just interests you. Just do yourself a favor and don't sit around and let time pass, your better off keeping busy doing something constructive.
Whatever the reasons are that contributed to this breakup, hopefully the information that you get from this article will make you feel better about yourself and help you understand that you are most certainly not alone in this. Many people out there share the pain that your are going through, the biggest hurdle is taking action and doing something about it. The solution may be easier than you think.
Listen here's the bottom line, "if you want things in your life to change, your going to have to change things in your life". With that being said I've got a guide at my website that is well worth reading and I do believe that you will get a lot out of it. Go to http://www.themagicofmakingupcure.com and watch this cool video.
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