subject: How loneliness affects you during holidays [print this page] How loneliness affects you during holidays
Holiday blues, Christmas crazies, Silly Season... All the craze is fantastic, if you are not single. Around you people laugh and seek "the perfect present" for loved one's, and you look forward to another pair of socks from Aunt Martha. No piece of heart shaped jewelery or latest gadget in your stocking. And at some stage you start wishing you were just not around for all the fuss. Holiday is the time you start fretting over finding "the one" and wondering how many seasons to come on your own?
So we have a few ideas to make the season more cheerful even though you are single:
1. Meet with friends you have not seen in a long time:
Everyone has more time over the holiday season, usually our lives are so busy with work and no time for play. All of a sudden there is much more time going around. So call all the old friends up. Go for brunch or coffee, see movies together and even go for a picnic when the weather is lovely.
2. Mingles with other singles
What can I say, birds of a feather... If you feel miserable they might be too and you can have some fun together .
3. Spend time with family
This is the season for long lunches around a table and leasure afternoons passing out on the coach. You never have time in the year!
4. Get in shape
Don't wait for January, when you exercise endorphins are secreted which makes you feel mrore happy. Could use some of those right now? Go to the Gym
5. Do new things
Pottery, or skydiving, no matter what try that thing you always wanted to. It will give you something to talk about over Christmas dinner.
6. Date
This is the best time to date. Everyone has more time and is more relaxed and in a festive mood. No reason not to find a holiday romance or even a partner for next year
Don't let the holidays get to you just because you are single. If you would love to get a partner for holiday fun or a permanent relationship a matchmaker could be the solution. Just like you other singles are also lonely and this is teh time when they realize it the most. Using a professional matchmaker will guarantee fun dates in this season. You will get to meet quality people whom you would even want to persue a relationship later.
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