subject: Develop A Magnetic Personality And Become Irresistible To Women by:Conrad Dixon [print this page] So you want a girlfriend So you want a girlfriend
Well, if theres anything that makes getting a girlfriend easy, it's having a magnetic personality. The only problem is, how do you develop it? Read on to find out what it's all about.
The great thing about having a magnetic personality is that once you have it, there's typically no need to CHASE women instead women come to you thats why they called it a "magnetic" personality.
A magnetic personality is where the expression of yourself is SO fun, exciting and valuable that people naturally become attracted to you and naturally want to be around you.
When it comes to having a magnetic personality, the best thing is you can develop it so that it becomes you ARE not something you DO. Once you have made your magnetic personality a "part" of you, you don't have to "try" being cool or attractive, in fact there's no "trying" involved at all it literally comes to the point where you're attracting women and relationships by just doing what you would naturally do there is no thought or effort involved.
In fact, once you've obtain a magnetic personality, the achievements of social success, popularity, finding friends, getting a girlfrined all becomes an AFTERTHOUGHT!
Sound good to you?
I bet it does!
So the burning question is how do we create a magnetic personality?
In order to understand how to create yourself a magnetic personality, you must first understand a concept I call your "social self" or the personality you use to "socialize" with.
Now what do I mean about that?
Well let me ask you, what is the point of socializing? What is the point of say sitting at a coffee shop with a friend to chat?
Well the answer is simply to have fun.
That's right TO HAVE FUN
The whole point of socializing is ultimately to enjoy the moment and have fun (or more importantly to stimulate emotions which is what "fun" really is and I'll be covering that in another post).
Therefore, what I call your "social self" could really be called your "fun self" or your "enjoyable self".
If you think about it, the more enjoyable you are to women the more women will want to be with you which is what personal magnetism ultimately is!
Do you get it?
The great thing about personal magnetism is that you're attracting girls, popularity, admiration and respect without necessarily relying on anything that is, you're gaining it all without relying on:
High social status
Wealth
Good looks
Physical prowess
Academic, work or sporting achievements (or any other form of achievement)
This means that you could be a jobless bum with hardly any money and STILL manage to attract more girlfriends than you can handle (and yes I do have friends in that position!) , but more importantly, you can always develop your personal magnetism no matter what situation you are in currently which basically means THERE ARE NO EXCUSES!
So, the question becomes how do we develop our "social self"? How do we become this fun, exciting, and enjoyable person in social situations that others just love to be with?
Well, in order to answer that question, we need to go back to our scenario at the coffee shop of you sitting with a friend, just chatting.
Once again, in any social situation, the whole point of the interaction is to have fun and the more VALUE you provide to that social interaction, the more attraction, popularity, admiration, respect that you will create.
The whole point here is this aspect of GIVING VALUE.
This is what you should be aiming for in whenever you are in a social situation to give value. Because the more value you give, the more you shall receive.
I call this SOCIAL VALUE ADDING to an interaction.
Now it may all sound very simple because it is! It just takes time to learn to implement
In order to develop your personal magnetism, seek to engage in as many interactions as you can, and seek to consistently add social value or "fun" value to the interactions.
There is also the flip side
The problem that a lot of people make when talking to women or people in general, is that they not only provide very little social value to an interaction, but they also TAKE social value from an interaction by expecting the other person to entertain them!
In order to become a social magnet, you must become the source of social value and not become a spectator! Now this does not necessarily mean that you must become a clown, but you must learn to develop the skills of adding social value.
Is that it?
Well, at the basis of personal magnetism is this vital skill of Social Value Adding.
But what if you don't want a fun joking personality? That's just not me you might say
Well, if you want Personal Magnetism, you're going to have to change. The problem with most people with their serious personalities is that their communication DOESN'T add Social Value.
In further posts, I will be covering topics on exactly how to add social value to an interaction, including the specific LANGUAGE that is used purely for that purpose a language which I call "Emotional Communication".
Also just as important as Adding Social Value is the skills of RETAINING Social Value because people are always trying to diminish your social status. Social Value Retention is the skill of defending yourself verbally in any social situation.
If Social Value Adding are the "offensive moves" in the game of social interaction, then you could class Social Value Retention as the "defensive moves".
About the author
My names Conrad Dixon, I am a dating coach that provides the best advice you'll find anywhere on the internet for developing your dating life. The simple ideas on my website will completely revolutionize your way of thinking about women and dating... and show you a world of sexual and relationship abundance that you never thought possible.
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